Women and Communication: How to Tell When She’s Mad

Guys are clueless when it comes to knowing whether or not their woman is mad at them.  It’s a sad fact.  The worst part is, when you don’t realize your woman is mad at you, they in turn grow angrier and angrier by the moment.  So, you need to squash this problem before it escalates into something more sinister.  Here’s how you can tell when your woman is mat at you.

The first step to noticing whether or not a girl is mad at you is by paying attention to her communication tactics.  Is she giving you one-word answers?  Is she answering your texts?  If she’s only responding to you with one word answers you might have a red flag waving right in front of your face.  When a woman is being short with you she’s avoiding extended communication with you.  She doesn’t want to cater to your needs, she doesn’t want to talk to you, and she sure as heck doesn’t want to sleep with you.  By giving you short answers she’s also hoping that you notice something is wrong.  She might not say it outright, but by being short with you she’s hoping you get a clue and ask her what’s up.

 Along with short answers, prolonged silence is another indicator that she’s angry with you.  If you can hear a pin drop in your apartment while you’re sitting on the couch watching TV with her—something is off.  Don’t jump to conclusions right away though.  Try to strike up a casual conversation to get her to talk.  If she’s non responsive, she’s angry.  That’s your cue to ask her what’s wrong.  If you’re dating a girl who is pretty straightforward, and she starts to use sarcasm in conversation with you—watch out.  Sarcasm can sometimes be used as a tool to attack another person who has hurt you.  If she’s using sarcasm in your every day conversation, and this is completely out of character for her, something is wrong.  Sarcasm can sometimes escalate to more hurtful behavior, so it’s best to address the issue as soon as possible.  Tell her that her use of sarcasm is worrying you, and you want to know if something is wrong.

The most important thing to remember when you suspect your woman is angry with you is to try to determine on your own what you did to make her upset.  If you’re able to realize on your own what you did to upset her, you can simply apologize!  An apology goes a long way with a woman that is angry.  If you don’t know what you did, encourage her to honestly and calmly tell you what you did.  Try not to start a screaming match, because that won’t get you anywhere in an argument with a woman.  Opening up a calm and understanding dialog will get your problems solved faster.

 So, yes guys are clueless when it comes to knowing whether or not their woman is mad at them.  When you don’t realize your woman is mad at you, she’s only growing angrier and angrier by the moment.  You need to address this problem before it spirals into something worse.  Open up an honest and calm dialog with her, and hopefully she won’t be mad for very long!