Sure, when you are in your twenties, it’s all about how many times and how quickly you can reach your climax. As you age, your sexual styles and needs change; like it or not. While some may find it a bit uncomfortable accepting change, it doesn’t always have to be a bad thing.
Think of your sexual needs changing and how they may change for the better. No, I am not talking about Viagra becoming the cocktail of choice before any penetration. I am talking about the quality of the entire act. As you age, there is something called a quality sexual experience. It’s not about teaching someone how to do this and that; they’ve been there and done that. It’s all about enjoyment now. Let’s move past the wham, bam, and thank you ma’am sex, and move on to more adult-like sexual experiences.
Better with Age
As you age, sex should be sensual and explosive. In your twenties, it is hard to understand what it is like to enjoy yourself. While of course, sex feels good at any age, most women have no idea what it is to experience an orgasm until they have reached their golden ages. We think we know it all when we’re young, but as you get older, you begin to see what you’ve been missing.
At the tender age of fifty, you start to notice that you enjoy the foreplay and sensual sexual acts more. Kissing, caressing, licking, rubbing, and everything in-between becomes that much more to you. Those quickies that you used to get are not even worth the time it takes you to undress. What you looking for is a night full of romance and passion. While you can find someone willing to do it, you rarely find these qualities in a one-night stand. These feelings and actions usually are performed by someone that you share feelings with. No, it is not necessary to have a significant other to enjoy sex with as you get older, but it does help to intensify the feelings and emotions that you experience.
Sex becomes taking the time to enjoy your partner. The feeling of their body against yours, the touch of their soft lips, and firm hands start to take precedence over penetration. The workup is where it’s at. At fifty, you’re past getting laid and then going about your day. You want genuine passion and penetration, not a quickie. You want to feel that sweat from his body transferred onto yours. It becomes a whole new experience as you get older. You’re not only getting older in years, but you have aging wisdom.
No Longer Just an Act
This beats what you’ve dealt with for so long. Sex is no longer an act but an experience. You know how and where to please your man, and in turn, he knows exactly what to do as well. Many people, especially women, tend to let themselves and many of their beloved activities go once they hit fifty. This is when you start using your years of knowledge to perfect experiences such as sex. You have more time and knowledge to create an explosive intimate experience. Use your tools and experience to fulfill your wildest and most sensual desires. Just because your fifty doesn’t mean it’s time to ignore your sex drive; it’s time to take full advantage. Try things you haven’t tried before and do it in places you haven’t done it before. Get creative and be free with your urges; don’t hold back. Embrace your inner naughty girl and let her free… she has been trapped for 50 plus years now. Enjoy your partner and become the lusted-after cougar that you’ve always been.