Guys have a fascination with bad girls. There was a meme floating around Facebook the other day that read, “Women want a bad boy who is good for them, and guys want a good girl whose bad for them.” The idea of “the bad girl” has drawn men in for centuries, but what is it about these broads that make them so desirable? Even further, what happens when you pursue a “bad girl”.
Sure, a girl with a “bad” exterior might be sexually attractive. You automatically think that this girl is a wild animal in the bedroom. Think before you approach. Sometimes what you see isn’t always what you get. Didn’t your mother teach you not to judge a book by its cover? Sure, this girl might be dressed in black leather and covered in tattoos—but she might also own 3 cats and love to knit on the weekends. You never know. The definition of “bad girl” shouldn’t be stapled onto a girl that dresses unconventionally. It could just be her sense of style.
Now, if you approach this girl and she’s flinging back shots of whiskey, cursing like a sailor, and just looking for some fun…well, then maybe you have a bad girl on your hands. You need to know what you’re getting into when it comes to pursuing a rebel without a cause. These kinds of women AREN’T relationship material. They’re only looking to have a good time and probably aren’t interested in getting tied down to you. That’s all well and good if that’s what you’re looking for. Just make sure you know what you’re getting into before diving into the deep end of the “bad girl” pool. This girl could be completely unpredictable. One minute you could be making out at a bar, and the next you’re waking up in a dirty hotel room handcuffed to a bed in your boxers. These girls can also be a whole lot of fun. If you’re looking to have a wild weekend—the bad girl is usually your go to chick.
So, why do guys love the “bad girl”? It’s probably the thrill of the chase and the uncertainty they bring. Bad girls love to play head games, and they always keep it interesting. If your idea of fun is being emotionally tortured by these Harley Quinns then go right ahead. Be warned, if you end up falling for a bad girl they might go through extreme measures to punish you for bad behavior. For example, if you cheat on them, say goodbye to that brand new car you’ve been driving around town. If you’re willing to ignore the crazy in exchange for some mind blowing kinky sex then that’s your decision. Just don’t say I didn’t warn you.
Even though the “bad girl” persona is sexually charging for men, they need to approach the situation with care. A fun night out is perfectly fine, but dating these women might be a little more than anyone can handle. Bad girls just don’t come in the form of tattooed women either—they come in all shapes and sizes. It all depends on the kind of person you’re pursuing. I think the true definition of a “bad girl” doesn’t care about anyone else but herself, she’s wild, and she plays games. Now, who wants to date someone like that?