Being Super Girl: Depression in the 21st Century
Ladies, do you ever feel the weight of the world is on your shoulders? We fought for equality for decades, and when we finally achieve it, we experience all the negative emotional stigma attached to it. We as women are supposed to have careers, bear and raise children, be a good friend, a good lover, a dependable professional, and still be what Roseanne Barr terms as the domestic goddess. With these expectations, women are still
Dear Single Mothers
Dear Single Mothers, You are superheroes! You don’t need a cape but your superpowers go above and beyond the call of duty. Sleepless nights, followed by a full day of work, topped off with caring for your sweet children. I see you! You are so far from alone. In 2019, statistics show that over 14-million families were led by a single female. That’s 14-million incredible women! The struggles are real; no doubt about that. Especially right now
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CROWNING QUEENS
Crowning Queens
The world is full of incredible and amazing women! Some are well-known for doing great things, achieving accomplishments, and overcoming some fierce obstacles while many
THE MALE ROOM
Women Dress Men
I don’t need a woman to dress me. I did when I was 2, but not now. Yet women often like to think they need
New World Through The Pandemic
Technology has seen its wrath this year, with warehouse shutdowns and company adjustments operating through the pandemic COVID-19. Remember back in February 2020 — fear and uncertainty rattled the best of us well-intended individuals — to stay inside, order groceries, with guilt that someone is working for our needs. If you needed to leave the house, you automatically conformed to an exit and return to the home checklist of hand sanitizer, masks, gloves, and reduced
What Are Communication Skills?
Communication skills are one of those things that are discussed so widely that we sometimes miss the entire point: what are communication skills, anyway? Are they the ability to get what you want from other people? Are they talking endlessly about your feelings? Do good communication skills make someone else feel valued and appreciated? Is it turning a stressful conversation into a pleasant, enjoyable conversation? The answer is that communication skills factor into all of the above.
How Do You Know You’re Communicating Effectively?
Everybody wants to be heard and acknowledged by the people around them, whether those people are their boss, their colleagues, their family, their friends, or their significant other. This is a basic cornerstone of the human experience. We crave connection with each other, and the way that we navigate that is through effective communication. But how can you tell whether or not the communication strategies you typically use are effective? How do you know when
Depression is No Laughing Matter
If it weren’t for my sense of humor, depression would have killed me decades ago. To simplify things, let’s say that there are two kinds of depression: situational depression (brought on by a recent event), and clinical depression (chock-full of lots of other items). Everyone gets onboarded to situational depression throughout their lifetime; it’s natural, and to be expected, when someone dies, a relationship ends, or you discover that you’ve already finished off that box
Sex at Fifty
Sure, when you are in your twenties, it’s all about how many times and how quickly you can reach your climax. As you age, your sexual styles and needs change; like it or not. While some may find it a bit uncomfortable accepting change, it doesn’t always have to be a bad thing. Think of your sexual needs changing and how they may change for the better. No, I am not talking about Viagra becoming
Dealing with Ageism: 5 Subtle Strategies that Could Help You Be Your Best Self at Any Age
‘Age is just a number.‘ ‘You are as young or old as you feel.’ ‘Age has nothing to do with what you can achieve in life.’ You hear these and similar truisms being thrown around all the time. If you are twenty, you are probably saying this to your fifty-year-old aunt on her birthday. If you are the aforementioned fifty-year-old aunt, you are probably saying it to yourself every day in an attempt to buoy
The Misunderstanding of Turning Fifty
Have you noticed or heard of how many women feel as though they have lost it all at fifty? It starts a few months before turning fifty. They get sad and feel as though they no longer have the looks, the energy, or time to do or involve themselves with anything or anyone. What’s wrong with these women? As someone who is over the threshold of fifty, I can certainly tell you that life is
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How Do You Know You’re Communicating Effectively?
Everybody wants to be heard and acknowledged by the people around them, whether those people are their boss, their colleagues, their family, their friends, or
New World Through The Pandemic
Technology has seen its wrath this year, with warehouse shutdowns and company adjustments operating through the pandemic COVID-19. Remember back in February 2020 — fear
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My Journey with Social Anxiety
I can pinpoint the exact day my social anxiety began. One day, in pre-school, a teacher’s assistant was measuring each student’s height for an in-class
How to Identify an Abusive Relationship
Sadly, many women have been in an abusive relationship at some point in their lives. Not all abusive relationships are easy to recognize; the abuse
Table Manners from Hell
We’ve trained our dogs and even our cats so now we need to take it to the next level and train our men how to
Understanding Self Intimacy: Breaking the Stigma of Female Masturbation
The female orgasm is a magical unicorn. It lasts longer than its male counterpart, and don’t necessarily have a recovery period like men, allowing for
Being Super Girl: Depression in the 21st Century
Ladies, do you ever feel the weight of the world is on your shoulders? We fought for equality for decades, and when we finally achieve
The Importance of “Me Time”
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As a New York make-up artist, hairstylist, and former model, I can’t express how imperative it is to communicate and express your opinion when having
Being Super Girl: Depression in the 21st Century
Ladies, do you ever feel the weight of the world is on your shoulders? We fought for equality for decades, and when we finally achieve
The Misunderstanding of Turning Fifty
Have you noticed or heard of how many women feel as though they have lost it all at fifty? It starts a few months before
Killing it in The Kitchen
Some of you may already have all of the awesome kitchen skills and knowledge passed down through family and friends. Others learned through hands-on experience
Women’s Hygiene: True Care For Your Fancy Bit
Our lady parts are known by many names, but regardless of what you may call it, the vagina needs special care. A healthy vagina is
Five Easy Ways to Build Your Confidence
Most people have a little voice in their heads that occasionally whispers some very critical things in their ears – things that drain self-esteem and
Intersectional Feminism: Its Meaning and Origins
Although it’s been a popular buzzword for the past few years, not everyone is familiar with this term. Perhaps you’ve heard it in conversation but still don’t entirely understand what it means. Intersectional feminism has been around decades – it was a term created in 1989 by a woman named Kimberle Crenshaw. This American professor, who wrote on it as part of a race theory paper, defined it as the study of different intersecting social identities
The Difference Between Competition and Obsession and Jealousy
Beginning from early childhood, we’ve all been programmed into entering the game of competing; whether it be in school, the home, relationships, and last but not least competing in the workforce for the almighty dollar! Competition is a healthy emotion, providing it is not escalated to the extreme. It may be perpetuated by your parents; thereby, comparing you to another sibling. Why didn’t you work hard enough to make the track team? Your sister gets
Relationships and Sex
The funny thing about relationships and sex is that it can sometimes make or break the relationship. Sex, whether anyone wants to admit it or not, is a big part of a relationship. If there’s any slacking going on, most likely someone in the relationship will cheat to fill that void. Everything can be going fine and lovely in a relationship for years, but if the sexual side of the relationship diminishes or dilutes, the
Don’t Have an Affair
Considering an affair? It makes so much sense. Doesn’t it? Perhaps your marriage or partnership has grown predictably stale. Maybe you’ve gone too long without having impersonal, sterile sex. Adding to your confusion are the attractive coworkers, charming store clerks, and chiseled personal trainers that have you making unnecessary errand runs and volunteering for extra shifts. Does any of this sound familiar? If so, welcome to marriage. Under the worst conditions, an affair won’t fill
Redefining Life In 2020
Introduction In the modern age of technology, COVID, and social distancing, many people are re-evaluating their lives. People are setting new priorities, exploring new hobbies, and experiencing the natural world in a new way. This extreme change in how people are living creates many stresses; yet, it also offers an opportunity to redefine who and what we value. Redefining Life through Quarantine Christina Aguilera said, “It’s impossible to redefine yourself and your life overnight.”1 Yet, in
Being Super Girl: Depression in the 21st Century
Ladies, do you ever feel the weight of the world is on your shoulders? We fought for equality for decades, and when we finally achieve it, we experience all the negative emotional stigma attached to it. We as women are supposed to have careers, bear and raise children, be a good friend, a good lover, a dependable professional, and still be what Roseanne Barr terms as the domestic goddess. With these expectations, women are still
Understanding The Importance of Regular Sex in Your Relationship
Relationships are about intimacy. Emotional intimacy is, of course, very important. However, many people place so much emphasis on this type of bond that the importance of physical intimacy is nearly forgotten. I’ve learned through personal experience that regular sex is vital in relationships, keeping couples happy, healthy, and close to each other on multiple levels. Here are a few helpful hints to follow. Delight in Fulfilling Each Other’s Needs Regardless of gender, age, or
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Intersectional Feminism: Its Meaning and Origins
Although it’s been a popular buzzword for the past few years, not everyone is familiar with this term. Perhaps you’ve heard it in conversation but
Relationships and Sex
The funny thing about relationships and sex is that it can sometimes make or break the relationship. Sex, whether anyone wants to admit it or
Redefining Life In 2020
Introduction In the modern age of technology, COVID, and social distancing, many people are re-evaluating their lives. People are setting new priorities, exploring new hobbies,
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Ten Riveting Books By Women of Color
Nothing’s better than getting cozy with a hot drink and a good read. But we’re finding that all too often, book stores are filled with
How to Overcome Passive-Aggressiveness
If you’re not sure that you’ve ever dealt with a passive-aggressive person, one of these scenarios may sound familiar: You: “Friend, can I borrow your
My Journey with Social Anxiety
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The Difference Between Competition and Obsession and Jealousy
Beginning from early childhood, we’ve all been programmed into entering the game of competing; whether it be in school, the home, relationships, and last but
Six Ways to Communicate Effectively
As human beings, it is often amazing how difficult of a time we have communicating or relating with each other. As opposite sexes, it seems
New World Through The Pandemic
Technology has seen its wrath this year, with warehouse shutdowns and company adjustments operating through the pandemic COVID-19. Remember back in February 2020 — fear
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Dealing with Ageism: 5 Subtle Strategies that Could Help You Be Your Best Self at Any Age
‘Age is just a number.‘ ‘You are as young or old as you feel.’ ‘Age has nothing to do with what you can achieve in
“Put ‘Em Out to Pasture”
Dear ladies over the age of 50, Before you get your knickers in an uproar, I too have hit this age criterion and am pleased
Nip, Tuck And The Needle
As a well-known makeup artist and beauty author, I’ve received numerous requests to write an article regarding nip, tuck, and the needle. Let me begin
Depression is No Laughing Matter
If it weren’t for my sense of humor, depression would have killed me decades ago. To simplify things, let’s say that there are two kinds
Communicating With Your Makeup Artist and Hair Stylist
As a New York make-up artist, hairstylist, and former model, I can’t express how imperative it is to communicate and express your opinion when having
Communication is the Key to Great Sex!
Many couples wonder how you can make sex fun, sexy, and last. They go through all the trouble in the world buying books, sex toys,
Female Friendship Movies That Pass the Bechdel Test
What exactly is the Bechdel test? It’s a way to measure the active representation of well-rounded female characters in a movie. For the flick to pass, it only requires three simple rules: Feature at least two named women in it These women need to talk to each other The conversation needs to be about something besides a man Unfortunately, most movies in Hollywood don’t pass this test. They’re usually filmed from the perspective of the
The House In Which Women Stay
Flashback to a frilly white apron covered in flour from the bread baking in the oven. Flashback to vacuuming in heels, all smiles when the husband comes home from work. Flashback to putting band-aids on boo-boos and wiping away tears on sticky faces. Reality Check: This is where the state-of-the-world is leading us. Feminism is in regression. The pandemic, despite arguments and blame-games, is nobody’s fault. However, what we are allowing it to do to
The Lens of Age and Time Part 3
If you’ve read the first two parts, of this three-part series, you’ll undoubtedly see a pattern emerging; being that women are amazing, have come a long way, and can do anything. Women today, have more choices than ever before. We’re not bound to stereotypical lifestyles which dictated our paths just a century before. The only limits we have, are the ones we allow to stop us, although some of those obstacles can be tough on
The Lens of Age and Time Part 2
Have you ever looked in the mirror, and asked yourself, “What the hell am I doing with my life?” The good news is that we all have. Women are especially hard on ourselves, particularly when we feel like we should be further along in life by this point, but aren’t. Rest assured that all women face doubt. But it appears that it manifests differently, depending on which part of our lives we’re in. As though
The Lens Of Age and Time-Part 1
Moving through the seasons of life can be tricky, frustrating, liberating, and hilarious. Regardless of your personal stats, women have common denominators, linking us together. In this three-part series, we’ll take a look at life, through the lens of age and time. As we age, we’ll face things we never saw coming, and others we did see coming, but could not fend off despite the fact. Living in the 21st Century has been a wild
Self Defense: Is It Worth Learning?
If I hadn’t studied martial arts and self-defense for many years, I doubt I’d be the person I am today. Taking karate and tai chi classes helped me to learn how to protect myself, assert myself, and be more confident. As have many other martial arts students, I became an advocate for studying it and have taught lessons to groups and individuals. Earlier this year I taught a self-defense course for three sessions to a
If You Don’t Play, You Can’t Win
As a woman who has worn many hats, I am an advocate for women pursuing their visions and dreams. I believe that self-confidence and determination are the keys to success. Too many are held back by the fear of success or listening to negative advice from others. My motto has always been “if you don’t play, you can’t win, and have turned a deaf ear to anyone who has tried to dissuade me from moving
Woman Power
Learning the Power of No
“No” is a word that every woman should lay claim to. Feel its weight on her tongue, pass it from cheek to cheek, memorize its
The House In Which Women Stay
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The Importance of “Me Time”
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I Want to be Thinner
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The Misunderstanding of Turning Fifty
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Nip, Tuck And The Needle
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New World Through The Pandemic
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Discrimination: It Still Happens
Ladies: Have you ever been to a store where the staff looks at you as if you are some strange being from another planet? Do
Would I Wear That?
Okay, tell me if this ever happens to you. You are flipping through a magazine, watching TV, walking down the street, or see someone at
The Importance of “Me Time”
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Motivational Podcasts to Light Your Fire
2020 hasn’t been the easiest year to stay motivated in. Motivation is something we all strive towards, but sometimes, being drained mentally and emotionally can make it challenging. Some days, I just wake up tired, frustrated about world events, and void of inspiration. To add insult to injury, the mundane nature of working from home during COVID-19 has us all burned out more than usual. Lucky for us, there’s a secret tool to fostering that
Communication is the Key to Great Sex!
Many couples wonder how you can make sex fun, sexy, and last. They go through all the trouble in the world buying books, sex toys, and DVD’s, but cannot find the actual answer to having great sex. Some couples may find themselves going crazy trying to figure it out, only to lose themselves in the search process, eventually giving up and the relationship falling apart. So what’s the key to great sex? The bottom line
Feminism: What It Is & What It Isn’t
According to Britannica, the word Feminism is defined as “the belief in social, economic, and political equality of the sexes. Although largely originating in the West, feminism is manifested worldwide and is represented by various institutions committed to activity on behalf of women’s rights and interests.” Unfortunately, too many people are under the impression that if a woman is a feminist, she hates and loathes men. Many also believe that all feminists are women! Both
“Put ‘Em Out to Pasture”
Dear ladies over the age of 50, Before you get your knickers in an uproar, I too have hit this age criterion and am pleased to share that I couldn’t feel better about myself. Over the years I have made my mistakes, learned from them, and find my own company far more interesting and entertaining than in my youth. Unfortunately, there is a group of insecure men who are fixated on the numbers and have
Table Manners from Hell
We’ve trained our dogs and even our cats so now we need to take it to the next level and train our men how to eat properly at the dinner table. For those of you lucky enough to be with a guy who has good table manners, this won’t apply to you; however, consider yourself lucky. I happen to have a problem with men who don’t understand the proper use of eating utensils. There seems
5 Things Awesome Communicators Do
Can men and women ever really understand each other? I think that they can, but I also think it takes a great deal of effort on both sides. This effort is often squandered in dumb arguments that go nowhere or end up hurting the feelings of all involved. I define “success” in communication as being able to achieve a resolution to an issue while addressing the resulting feelings on both sides. Some people really have
Simple Ways to Help a Friend Who Is In An Abusive Relationship
If you have a female friend who is in an abusive relationship, you know it is an extremely difficult situation. It’s painful to watch someone you care about suffer, and it can be frustrating to see her voluntarily endure the abuse. While the choice to leave is ultimately up to your friend, there are things you can do to help her along the way. Be Available. In abusive relationships, women are typically forced into physical
The Angle
Feminism: What It Is & What It Isn’t
According to Britannica, the word Feminism is defined as “the belief in social, economic, and political equality of the sexes. Although largely originating in the
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The Lens Of Age and Time-Part 1
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The Lens of Age and Time Part 3
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I Want to be Thinner
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As a New York make-up artist, hairstylist, and former model, I can’t express how imperative it is to communicate and express your opinion when having
Being Super Girl: Depression in the 21st Century
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How Freelancing Can Improve Your Finances During COVID-19
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Understanding The Importance of Regular Sex in Your Relationship
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Girlfriend Getaways During a Pandemic
It’s been many months since the pandemic hit and pandemic fatigue is starting to take over. Do you find yourself asking, “Where can I go for a getaway and still be safe?” Are you missing your girlfriends and need a girl’s weekend? It is possible to enjoy a vacation with a few extra precautions. So, get ready for that rejuvenating weekend with your best gal pal because I’m going to give you a few tips
Five Easy Ways to Build Your Confidence
Most people have a little voice in their heads that occasionally whispers some very critical things in their ears – things that drain self-esteem and flush confidence down the toilet. If your inner jerk is being more vocal than usual, and you find yourself in need of a confidence boost, here are five things you can start doing today that will get you into a better mindset. Learn to Accept a Compliment Sometimes, the
Ten Riveting Books By Women of Color
Nothing’s better than getting cozy with a hot drink and a good read. But we’re finding that all too often, book stores are filled with white, male authors. Many of us find encounter difficulties when trying to find books written by women of color, which is another frustrating instance of marginalized communities being pushed to the side. At TWW, we want to honor those valuable and diverse writers – these books are some of the
Balance Through Scheduling
Introduction A mom has many jobs. Moms scrub floors and nurse scrapped knees all while balancing checkbooks and stocking the pantry. Today’s woman is on the go from the time she wakes up until the time she falls asleep. To help moms and women around the globe create some balance, here are three easy tips that you can incorporate into your life. Scheduling Create balance through scheduling. Scheduling is an important tool. Teachers send you
Divorce Survival Kit
Having been through a divorce myself, I know better than to try to convince anyone that divorce is easy. It isn’t. It’s one of the hardest things I’ve endured in my forty-two years. It causes stress for the whole family, obviously for both parents and children, but also potentially for relationships that were forged with in-laws and friends. But I also have a positive message: I survived it, and so can you. Here are some
The Importance of “Me Time”
I Encourage You To Take Some! “Me Time” turns easily into “We Time” when kids are involved. The bathroom, grocery store, private moments, during phone calls, and in the middle of the most inappropriate times that could exist, your kids will be there. There are insanely beautiful ups that come with those downs and trust me, one day you’ll miss the weirdest things! However, this article is all about you getting that “Me Time”! The
How Freelancing Can Improve Your Finances During COVID-19
What Is Freelancing & Why Should You Start? Freelancing is about being self-employed and earning your money on a per-job basis usually with a skill you enjoy. This method of earning money includes writing gigs to graphic design work and even renting out your property on Air BnB. Those were just a few ideas to help you better understand your options in freelancing. With the use of technology, you can be your own boss from
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Killing it in The Kitchen
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I Want to be Thinner
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Nip, Tuck And The Needle
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If You Don’t Play, You Can’t Win
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The House In Which Women Stay
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Girlfriend Getaways During a Pandemic
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Feminism: What It Is & What It Isn’t
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What Are Communication Skills?
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Color Me Beautiful
Well, many, many years ago, when women were aimlessly wandering through the fashion world, someone came up with a fantastic idea to make fashion more exciting, more fun, and more rewarding. That, someone, was Carole Jackson, and in 1980, she helped to change the way we look at fashion and ourselves. She wrote a book called Color Me Beautiful. On the cover as well as the second page, she writes, “discover your natural beauty through the
Communicating With Your Makeup Artist and Hair Stylist
As a New York make-up artist, hairstylist, and former model, I can’t express how imperative it is to communicate and express your opinion when having your make-up and hair done for a photoshoot, an event, make-over, or your frequent trip for your cut and color. Do not worry about being offensive or that “this is not your expertise so you’ll leave it up to them.” Regardless of whether you are up to date in fashion,
How to Overcome Passive-Aggressiveness
If you’re not sure that you’ve ever dealt with a passive-aggressive person, one of these scenarios may sound familiar: You: “Friend, can I borrow your car tomorrow morning?” Friend: “Well, I kind of need it for myself, but I guess you can borrow it. Do you need me to fill the gas tank?” Or: Husband: (Returns home late from work and hasn’t texted wife all day) “Hi…why are you so quiet?” Wife: (Rolls her eyes
Discrimination: It Still Happens
Ladies: Have you ever been to a store where the staff looks at you as if you are some strange being from another planet? Do they make comments which make you feel like less than a human being? It happens more often than you might think. Facebook hosts all sorts of videos that teach morals about treating one another fairly, which have been called fake, non-realistic, and other negative labels. While these stories might seem
Killing it in The Kitchen
Some of you may already have all of the awesome kitchen skills and knowledge passed down through family and friends. Others learned through hands-on experience and training in a class or restaurant. However, not all of us have a kitchen guide (you know the one that has the crazy secret knowledge you didn’t even realize existed) to pass anything down to us. Even for some of us who DO have one, it doesn’t mean they’re
Would I Wear That?
Okay, tell me if this ever happens to you. You are flipping through a magazine, watching TV, walking down the street, or see someone at work, and you catch yourself gazing at their whole outfit thinking how well it is put together. Or you are drawn to a part of their outfit, like a necklace, scarf, belt, the shoes and you think how cool, how great looking, how different the item is. Then after a
Can Fashion Be Compared to Real Estate?
Hey, what is the mantra of real estate? It is LOCATION, LOCATION, LOCATION. That is a good philosophy and is useful in a variety of areas — where you work, your favorite restaurant, shopping, sex, and, oh yes, fashion!!! Think about it. Where you put what you wear can make or break your appearance. Let’s talk about this, shall we? Location is important. Now, if you are a tall, lanky, perfectly aligned model type, you
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Would I Wear That?
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My Journey with Social Anxiety
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